Because life is about now and moving forward at the same time, it often can be tricky and confusing. Since we cannot go back and change what has already been done, and we can only go forward. Life is then about how we go forward. It is important to take control of your life, but it is equally important not to “force” your life. The difference can lead you to who and where you want to be, versus, the latter will definitely put you somewhere where ultimately you will feel trapped or lost or smothered. It will put a disturbing pressure on you and leave you feeling empty, unfulfilled, because you were so busy forcing it, you failed to stop and see if you ever wanted it. Usually you don’t.
In being patient, and let things come to you naturally, doesn’t mean don’t strive and work hard to achieve something. It simply means, truly want what you are striving for, and working for, so that you may truly enjoy and appreciate your accomplishments and endeavors.